In a battle of good people and bad people there are always the battle between mountain people and city people. Mostly people who live in the mountains or in the villages they are not used to the noise that make their silence turn into some irrational point of disturbance. And vice versa goes for the people who live in the city, they crave for noises, parties, smokes, drinks, loud noises of the home theatre playing songs whole night, that just the normal routine eff people who are not used to it.
It is so not so convenient thing that people of both the places when try to live together, can they live peacefully? You can count it as a yes, but it is a big no. It is the basic thing like sometimes opposite attracts and sometimes not that is totally based on what you want and what you can do for them. Even if things are not on your side, even especially you can decide to roll that up on your side for a person opposite to you, it is strangling though you put aside who you wanted to be and who you are and that is completely alright for you now because that is how things work when you meet someone and wants to spend your whole life with them and you cannot find a way out.
To find a way out we all think that it is the only reason to feel to be coloured as like what other people are and saying it is by our will because we love them. It is questioning why one cannot do to make things work out by totally opposite to it and make things work like that. Two partners married, one want kids and other doesn’t, they two are fighting endlessly over this topic and what they can do to resolve this? For a normal person there would be two options if they both will not agree on the same thing one of them will decide to separate and second option that the wife should be having a kid or if she doesn’t able to give birth they have to try other option for having kids but the same thing will happen they have to be end up on mutually understanding what to do for having kids.
Why could not go for third option to adopting each other habits first and try to make things between them no matter how much time it takes! Life does not go here and there if you will not have children or if you will have it will be late. You will be happy on the either side of life. Just be mutually agree on your terms, conditions and norms.
A person who hasn’t been clean shaved for years is now trying different beard style he will be taking time out to adjust with that style so that he could look good. Deep down that person is not settling for others but for him because he wants to look good and try some other thing. If someone will tell him to try, will he be happy doing that without his will? No, he will irritated and do it forcefully or he will do for other happiness and will not adjust for those things and forget about being happy.
Now think of if you will end up with the person who is exactly like you? People fall in love many a times and find the first, who is exactly like them and will make the destiny along-with. If one love travelling they will find the same, if one have interest in any kind of art they will find like them only. And if one is having the profession of anything suppose teaching they will find their partner whoa re teachers. And they will find comfort in them only because for them they cannot fit with anyone else.
Because they have made the mind like that and warned their heart too. And think things could not go wrong there and now if you have thought that, things will go wrong now. That is where destiny works in its own way. Things are not wrong you think it is wrong and when you try to make it right you spoil more because you never thought it will be spoiled. Same is with the mind of people, their true nature, the true colors when they are irritated, when they shout, when they do every small thing to make things right they forget that it is not in their hands.
What we ignore, we become that and what we become that is completely not in our control either it is good or bad, we are who we are and that nobody can change. Not because we need to or somebody’s love can do to us but we do not allow our self deep down to change and go beyond that boundary because nobody has taught that and then it becomes our free will.
Sometimes you meet the people like you, and you are so grateful for meeting them you never want to lose them and unfortunately you lose them and you cannot accept that for days, weeks, months, and even years and we did not know if its normal until we meet someone in whom inside we see our self and that person, the rage, the brokenness, the probability of not be like others, it so does make sense and it feels so right to heal that person just after you saw the brokenness inside that person just by seeing their face in no spam of time, you saw what they have gone through and that is the exact same thing from which you have gone through and what everyone goes through, it is just they give you the clarity what you ignored for years, will not be avoided now.
And you can see that so clearly , you want to make it realize to that person when they do not want to accept it at all. They are the kid of their own. They are lost. They are themselves deep down but they refuse to do it just because of that one traumatic experience, why is that and for whom it is that? Heart feels heavy, soul wants to leave the body, and your consciousness? They want to be alright but you always end up listening to the heart. As in front of the heart, nothing really matters for you! It is the disclosure emptiness that you are not satisfied with.
But why it feels so personal to you when you even do not know that person completely? When the world is busy in the rush you all know what I am talking about, (the people who are nearest and dearest to you) that one person they tries to open up with you, you recall you never lived your childhood and when you forget about those things they make you feel nostalgia and make you live your childhood now when you have lost it. They give you main character energy just because they too are and we both deserve to be.
Neither they nor you deserves to be broken but some people they are born with a leak, the one who observes, the one who heal others, they are unsatisfied problematic wired chaos people with the life and when they see someone else like them their heart melts down, their soul tries to rest and their mind they feel relaxed if they make the other person like them feel better.
It happens so much of time near you, to make yourself feel normal you heal many people and with that you find your healing. Therapies are like this, people are like this, broken things join like this. As one dialogue is there Every broken thing can be joined if we know the correct process of it.