Love can mend people, love can make you act stupid around people, love can make you think about other people how their lives are or how they survive without those who doesn’t have any lover or don’t believe in love. Love make you fall in love with many things that you run away from. But the main question is, does the people do it for their own will, the things in love? Mediocre question but the reality it is what it is! Things are not what they seem, things are not what they react, things are not what it looks like this, it is much more big and can make you dig deeper in those things.
It is insane that we deny the facts what we faced in the past oftentimes we judge our present judgments in the name of it and prefer things to go likely as we want and not as what destiny decides. Things take wrong turn, people take wrong decisions, do bad things and the cycle repeats. And one day we decide whosoever is coming and whatsoever is making interest that could be our endgame of us. But does one really need it? I mean, guess it you get your heart broken, destiny let you find another one came closer to you either exactly like you or opposite to you but you doesn’t know what you want still in life.
Sometimes it is just an attraction or things that you love in them make you think you have a feeling for them but in reality who knows what is happening when you itself is not clear of the facts. But the thing is does love really need the facts to happen or does it have a proper definition or it happens when something hit you deeply inside? When people forgive themselves from the things they did in the past, from the mistakes they have did or from the things they wished they might have did but couldn’t able to do. Destiny gives them a favor of lifetime package of make things alright in life. And when they chooses that package that insanity is called love. That is not just mediocre living. That is some just random life hitting you and making you believe in things all over again.
They find some magical in those moments they want to relive those special precious feeling again. It is something like restarting everything that you have, that you wish to have and that you are. And then you think, you don’t find love but love finds you that is somewhat in a way correct too though you just make connection and things start to make sense, you start to make sense and what you do in love start to make sense but what does not make sense after that is logic because there is no space for logic after that as both runs oppositely.
But what happens sometimes is that insanity goes beyond next level when the love you pray for you even get it, you know now you have everything but still you are not satisfied. You think love has become less inside you by the time spent and reality is checking in with the logic when you have kids, their responsibilities, their expenses and that mediocre thing starts to comes in front of you and you realize now is you were living in those dream world all over now.
What you thought life is itself more demanding and more challenging and more captivating of thoughts that born as what ifs. The insecurity that you had before marrying or having kids or those second thoughts you are thinking those were the calling from life to step back because if you are not ready now to stay then you are never ready before. But then you thought whatever you are now is all because of the parents and they taught you one thing, only to stay! And if they both mother and father would not have stayed then we were never like this, prepared in the unprepared turn of events.
Every-time you have a fear you step back, you think you came from a broken family or you are born broken with a leak that has a fate of not sticking with one person all their life. For a fair moment of time these all are excuses! And to make it all a sense of sight lets get back in time.
Start from the scratch, you meet someone indefinitely or accidentally and from the first expression you start to think you two belong each other and if not the first expression, when you two talked for the first time on a phone call you both somehow connected not because your vibes matched but also this never happened before. How you are after a few minutes in talking behaving like them and you don’t know about it while being another person. And when you think about it or hear from someone else your inner sigma came and you start to deny it.
That is the first moment of feeling a connection you see in yourself. Second is when you see someone that broken incompleteness in their face attracts you towards them and you think that is not their face that is showing that is their soul reflecting begging not rage but to be completed in some more like family way. And the first thing you catch is why not, I could be their family as the depression, the tension of loneliness I have been through I cannot let this happen to anyone and especially to this person whose face is itself is home and the soul that is the household stuff that we require in making of the family.
And no matter what happens in future, either you make it happen with them or not or surpass any of the circumstances you cannot forget that first expression because in your lifetime that feeling will remain permanent in your heart and you think of with that expression every time you see that person even if they are changed or not, healed or not. That is another sign of love that shows how much you care for them and how you want to see them in future with you or not but not sad, not make them feel bad, not make them feel unwanted etc,
There are many signs of love that you will feel connected with that person, either it starts with you or them that is the vicious cycle and you keep on rotating in it but what matters is how you act mature in those times with that person if you find that person is more than duty to you, they are your life, they are your support system and most importantly they are your family and you can do whatever you think you can do to stick with them.
But you try till the end to make the future with them because at last you think if not they, then who? Not anyone and if not anyone you will stay single or bachelor your whole life. But the thing is if you does not feel connected with anyone don’t show your insanity and in somewhat way don’t force the connection to turn into some other thing that you disagree with in future because what might happen is your biggest fear and what not happen is the biggest truth of life.