Being proud of each other, being valued for each other and being there for each other holding hands, what does that mean? What does it notify? What does It denote to us or to people that are close to us or that wants to be close to you? Does it bother them that they are not able to do that much they have wished for or does it bother them that they are doing but at some moment they need the same payback as they are valuing others and not just others sometimes the special one.
People are rare to find who just stays but just only staying in life is normal? Or we cannot able to find that one thing or see that one thing that already is there but if we want to see it why there is so much of hurdles, why there is so much of distance then? Why things are not like more if we want to see the things the emotions the valuable part and we are seeing things finally then why the relations become more chaotic when it is not just like that with what we are having doubts, we are having fears.
Overall. the basic first fear is to not let that any of the unconscious things come true of which you have doubts. Because if those come true then the story has already ended and you now have become a complete fool, a complete idiot, a complete moron persisting fighting again anxieties and suffering from the reliable stress though.
But it isn’t it like again what it feels like you always go top notch to see in the positive side of everything and you should see that again until it is your turn and you just ready for a commitment after a long period of time but making others ready for it, it is not a huge decision but it is also a huge part of yours you are giving them. And honestly it is not a big thing to give this huge part to them for whom you want to cry yours tears out or want to burst out yours tears in front of them as if you have kept it in the jar and now it is time to break that turmoil of those emotions you want the closure of and same goes for them also who sees the good in you, have faith in you and wants to love you or you are making them feel loved about you so that you can be the part of their lives as well.
What are they to you and what are you to them it is obvious that it remains between you too so that both of them can always figure out what it out there that no one is able to sort things out. But what you able to feel about each other it is also alright to discuss with your buddies who are at least part of your life or you known them since ages.
Times comes and it goes by and we are so unable to crack that when we open our eyes, we even did not know what we are waiting for is already here and we just have to click into it but with the right moment and right time. A theory I came upon with and actually this blog is also about that only, that when we are already in a right time still, we struggle a lot with distance, conversations, holding onto the things and make things alright. But you all wonder how when we are in the right time still making things right?
That is where you have to click with the life and understand the whole concept of the sitcom you are in playing a character that still continues after the ending. We as a human is already making the right time but when we alter the situation or deals with it or surpasses the scenario with good ratio then again, another thing came and we forget how to perform such actions that hold things not so much tightly but prefers to preserve it with caring and loving how much a person a can do and will do.
Yet one thing they did not realizes is, in each situation they have to not to be right but to make timings right because as someone’s heart they already are right but has to make timings perfect and if not perfect at least has to be got to feel situations can be in control or make the situations right to be in a calmer situation than before.
You are what you become as what situation makes you and you are not as what timing makes you. Like more the situation is in control the more in sane person you are who can deal with any insecurities and can control your own anxiety if you have a person by your side who you can say yours anywhere with anyone you are. And the more in messier the timing is the more insane person you will become who will struggle to figure out things supposedly if everything ok not everything but some portion of yours is in your side still that makes you feel more vulnerable and more gullible with anyone you are no matter anywhere you go. You always will feel down.
You have trust, you know how destiny works, you rely on other person as they can save you though in all these kind of process there are always one thing that doubts you is will you able be enough or are you what doing is not forcing such emotions, forcing such situations behold the timing and you and the other one.
Assumingly and presuming you find out and you also figure out where you are doubting and where you are fearing it Is not like what it seemed to be but the real you dealing with the real stuff is being ready to unleash and it is all what making you ready but the person you are being ready with shall be permanent in this process as many came and many left but they stayed and this shall might have a reason behind it. Because no matter what you learn, what you seek though it is obvious that might be the positive in nature but there are people you wish to remain permanent in life after you have been itself a temporary one in others you do not want to repeat it again.
For once there is no curse, there is no void just an urge to remain happy with that person and smile all your life listening to their stories and telling you to them proudly and in order to write and find that one perfect ending you created yours silently. This part of the life is all goddamn one thing everyone needed with that one connection you always needed to make and hold and deserve.
Connections are one of a kind and a rare thing to find and it is more like a piece of a puzzle that you find your whole life and once you find out you may become a little selfish about it and I guess this much selfishness is okay to become because the more needy you are to remain happy the more you can be comfortable with them and they also be with you. Because what you have with them you cannot it have with any other and you do not want that neither you want to make it like that. Just a urge to be with that person you care about and find out everything easily and precisely.