Well, if I start from the very first positive side of the movie, I assume it had no negative side according to me and after many a times I have seen some female director shown case the not the power of feminine side nor the masculine side but the power of relationships that is well balanced from both the sides, male and female. There is a lot to talk about this movie, about the characters, about their emotions why they feel so pure, genuine, realistic and relatable.
So, starting with the scratch, I start with the plot I guess so that you all can relate with the characters more. People have emotions, people get hurt, people part ways but anyone has the answer why people get hurt easily or people put part ways from they love the most? Just because they did not agree on some of your talks which actually hurt them, which actually make them grieve of what they have spoke which they clearly could not, which they have reacted too much which they clearly could not. Everything relies on the relationships and then marriage but it is not done to be fulfilled until you have love inside it or until you have that emotion which make you think the other one is completing you.
What is love? What are those emotions? What is the simplest way of feeling those emotions and love and every other broad spectrum that deals with the relation or bond between the two people. What is something so usual inside you that you find your whole life and when you got that it is going so much far away from you that you realize everyone does mistakes, everyone possess something but aren’t we capable of letting go of those guilts, those freakish demands that we sustained? Why is it like that, we have to hold on to the things until we got a closure. Is the closure really that important?
Is the imperfection really damn sounds so good that every time we go order something we need no flaws in it? isn’t perfection a flaw? What is something so damn flawless that it requires to be a part of one goddamnit life to be happy? Why one does not be happy for a moment and wants to be for their whole life? Why we do not understand that these tiny moments make us who we are actually, what are lives worth of, what we are worth and capable of? What so flawless in it, that is has no chaos, is sorted, simple and sophisticated that you just saw this and knew that is it!
For one person it might took only several months, and the other just the one look and go for it still take some years to find out as if something they knew they are sure of but not completely but they knew they seek somehow somewhere deep inside a pace of that soaking vulnerability which make you realize not only you but that person deserves more than what they have or what they want from each other which they hide from everyone especially from themselves, probably which they did not talk or did not want to talk about and finishes the talk with just a smile and emotions filled with tears in the eyes and behave like, yeah go on live with your life.
Seen many romantic comedies but haven’t been a fan of or tried to be btu couldn’t but this one movie made me realized that emotions should be there whenever you want to date someone or be with someone or especially when you require them the most.
Dakota Johnson did a great job delivered here of being a match maker that works for a company who holds the data of the people and make them not to worry about something that is the nature of life like breaking of heart or loneliness or anything like that. And not one but two situations happened with her that made her decision to either change her life or to upgrade herself from who she was before and she knew the difference between the two things.
It was something like when you are with someone either you get along with someone just feel like an attachment without any feelings and only just by drastically like their surroundings etcetra and second thing is like you when you are friends with someone you not only get along with them quickly but the more you entangled with them the more you enjoy their company and that is what I feel should happen before starting a dating situation or before coming into a relationship so that every time you be with that person you can still love their aura, you can still be with that person call them or text them you know they would be there in the first place no matter how bad situation they are in or how worse or critical situation you both are in personally or privately.
People enjoy romcoms as the source of entertainment, people enjoy romcoms as the source of a mere timepass, people enjoy romcoms so that they can watch it with the person they love the most. But have they questioned themselves why they are with them and with what purpose? Or they just want to be feel so loved? Because this is not the reason anymore or any time before in the past years so far.
Chris Evans, aah! I wonder why he did super hero movies in the marvel cinematic universe when he is so good in the romantic comedies. The one who always speak from the eyes and his smile. He is one of that actor of hollywood I want to never get aged and do romcoms all his life. Because if romcoms did not have Chris Evans there is no purpose of watching romcoms and there is no use of making romcoms.
His timing in the movie is as perfect as it should be. He made us realize that what a person can go wrong in his life still he can be right for you only because he is not deserving but he is not perfect to be fit anywhere but does what he loves the most without any doubt and without anyone’s concern. He is one of those people in the movie who can make you realize what is the difference between a man is and who a masculine man should be.
A man would be someone you meet, have your respect, taken your care and build you an empire whereas a masculine man is someone who shows your priority, who shows your worth, who is there with you but let you do the thing on your own because he knows what is the capability there is inside you and what you can do with that if we see on the positive side.
And speak of the Pedro Pascal, his charm reflects with his presence with his royal entry and a decent person. What Chris has been shown in the film Pedro is been the opposite of that. Unlikely his screentime was less than the other ones but he left a great impact on the film to build the upgrade of other characters to realize who they are and why they are. Especially of the Dakota’s, she was the lead but Pedro my man! You won in this film. You absolutely won here.
Unlike Evans, Padro also made us realize that what a person can go wrong in his life still he can be right for you only because he is not deserving. But the only difference here is Evans was so wrong yet shown right by the coming of the climax whereas Pedro he was so right yet became wrong only because Dakota could not loved him the way Pedro wanted.
Dakota was clear from the starting, she was not the one what Pedro is finding but what she meant was according to how much money they make as Pedro was rich and Dakota wasn’t. Where on the other side for Pedro, Dakota could be the one because he knew she is simple, sorted and sophisticated deep down even if she has chaos around her.
Why anyone in love or attachment has to be so wrong and has to be so right that it made them deserving or worthy or undeserving or unworthy?