Many of you have seen people in traditional wears or formal wear in parties, functions that are looking so authentic like they are the most knowledgeable person ever around you. But in real are they really the best person you have known, ask yourself that? Ask your soul about that? Who are they and what do they do and even if they are good to you does their greetings are as much as raw as their very own personalities?
No, it is not judging about some things related to clothing, it is a basic metaphor related to are people really nice to you or they just act as their duplicate persona?
Many of you wherever you go or whatever you do, you always get the same abrupt personification “be well dressed otherwise what will be the people thinking?” Take the example of advocates they are always used to hear “wear proper black coat and pant should be pressed along with the white shirt should be without any wrinkles and shoes must be polished that you can see your face in them.” And I am not saying they did not look like that but they should be like that as that is why their personality hits different but when they enters into the court their norms comes in between their personality and they I become very different person like they can do anything to seek the justice for their clients or something more oftentimes they get brutal to others also which kind of hit them with a lot of insanity but they indemnifies every time because of what their roles are either for the society or against the society.
Norms, principles, roles, rules and regulations, they could be either for the society or against the society as well and no matter what happens people can do anything to allow themselves to carry out these things even while performing their respective roles in one’s life as a human being and not as what their duty is towards society. But the question is still same yet the format changes then, how is it affecting them in order to distinguish between who they are and what are their roles?
I guess whosoever will talk about or listen or understand or give reviews they only will see the one side of the coin which was remain unheard, misunderstood, and undervalued. Rather it about be any topic, you go raw, you go with precious moments, you go with more of something like humanity their relations, their condensed form that passes by but does all of it relinquish the difference that we all want to know? Rather you are a common person or have some responsibilities with some designations you have testified with the subjective degrees.
For me, philosophy and literature holds the special place in one’s life that revolves around at every aspect through life. Rather it holds everything norms, rules, regulations, principles and roles it balances everything. If somebody is not even interested in literature which could be obvious thing it is a must request to follow philosophy as their need to learn the social lifestyle which also act as the basic rules to follow a path!
Philosophy is not a need nor a want and not even a social or economic culture but it still manages to take you to the path of a road where you have an identity which performs the humanity in your uniform and with your real company as well. It helps you to revive your motive, learn to let go people and things that teases you with a wit of negativity.
It is also not like what people sees you or how they are towards you, it is more like how they think of you and do they make those things come out in face to face in front of you. if yes, they are the most realistic person to you and no matter if it is against you or you did not like it at all. One could be stressed yet would not allow themselves to let you know about them but they observe tiny details about you and can go far worse than you think but importantly you should always praise to them for being realistic even that hurts you too.
Their hatred could level up you more than anyone raises you with love but the more the hatred you will get you will itself forgot your motive and try to avoid hatred when you see you are getting from one of them. And more of the positivity the more vibing you became with others where you will not only explore yourself but stop struggling of opening up. In my opinion opening up about yourself is more of a bit psychological rather than in terms of philosophical but it all say deep connected internally perpetuated.
It is not the question of who you are and what you are I repeat both are different if we see the dilemma of personality, no! identity. It became the question of what you want because we all know what are our needs but one is always confused about the wants so it is everything all about the wants. It is the only thing that realizes us more of the reality of from both the sides of the coin which we cannot able to see such things or ignore them or unable to accept it.
Being gentleness does not come from the powerhouse of any of the designation but it came from the spirituality, the genuine followship of one’s kindness towards others, one’s possession through another, one knowledge of qualification of the subject they are interested in more like which is not studied in school or colleges. The general knowledge which has to do with both philosophy and psychology. The very two aspects of gentleness from the mind, personality and identity.
It is that basic want where you can go with the time into generations and understand it no matter what it is upto the mark or not. Like generation z people how they are trolled but anyone knows they are trolled because it is not because they are born in z generation but the time has come around that we millennials or our parents could not step ahead in this corrupt generation who does not take anything seriously only expect what is not necessary. Content creation, video gaming battles, roasting each other in youtube has become not just the future but the success rate of the careers that does not need even the degrees just basic known languages to speak in fluency and psychic force unlike morality and dignity.
And it feels so pressurizing to be the part of their generation z that not just adapting a whole generation but to be the part of that one formula which no one wanted but we got. And same for the genz’s who think to be the part of the not one’s true identity but to follow the previous generation of us called millennials. And we millennials think of the same like we have become a sandwich between two generations what to let go and what to adapt and it is a repetitive cycle of which comes in each one of our lives.
And some of us in order to break the cycle do not even dare to make a family at a point and wants to live a peaceful healthy life alone in the mountains or beaches while drinking their favorite drinks regularly. What we call that race intelligent or depressed?
Answer smartly in the comments.