We all the times supports sports or any other thing that is pretty sure are our favorite kind of thing that we feel needs to do it. But what does make us feel to make that sports, team or that person our very own personal favorite and we do want to share that feeling but not that favoritism with anyone else? And if we do, that might be our thunder and we guess nobody can steal it from us.
It mostly happens with Bollywood actors when they are giving flops from flops and needs that one comeback film to get back into the controversy but their fans? They are the most affected by it, from their failures, from their success, from their personal loss, from their personal win and even it is itchy I know but from their personal lives as well. It is a pretty huge thing that we follow a deep concept of favoritism or affection through their lives?
Like suppose, I am a writer and I hate my life from being a corporate slave and doing the job to pay my bills but also, I know this is not the perfect time to mark myself as an established author. Although I had a great audience back in college as I had written some short novels as well which was written only to target some amount of audience through which we can test rather I could get the chance to become one established author afterwards.
When I hear the word writer, there are two names that come in everyone’s mind Chetan Bhagat and Ruskin Bond and when we hear poetry, we always hear two names Jaun Elia and Gulzar. They are not created but they are chosen by words. And ofcourse there might be some back story of all of them which reflects through their work which also define writing and poetry by their names like as in if we have to use the word writer we will use any of the name from these two Chetan Bhagat and Ruskin Bond. And same goes for poetry, Jaun Elia and Gulzar are the heads of it. Obviously, there are some other people also whom we forgot that had contributed equally, more like Manto, he was the well profound writers back in the start to the middle of nineties.
And same goes for sports. And more than anything in this world, sports is the first activity that we are connected with, and the sportsman or sportswoman they are our heroes and heroines. People shook all the time when their country’s team is in the finals and about to win or lose but most important. they take it a personal win or losing. Is that because of they are connected to the sportsperson or the game or the sports?
They are connected or get affected or get touched with the emotions. Not with the backstory of the game, of the sportsperson but of the history that is remarkably the finest vulnerability one ever found inside themselves. They keep aside all the aspects that follows like religion, caste, city, state, country politics that make things get worsen than anything only because to enjoy the sports altogether.
Each one of the café of the areas put the screenings of the match obvious for the publicity, but if we flip the coin that is to be done to celebrate the win of our favorite team either in football, cricket, hockey, badminton or any other sports.
Like if we say, about the ongoing chess champion of our country Gukesh Dommaraju. We all celebrated because we as Indians was and is happy that the little guy won the championship and named our country the best in games. At that moment he won medals, he won blessings, he won many things but one thing he was proud of to be was naming his country making it the best everywhere.
And last year when our country won the title for the world cup we all praised, we all hailed because the emotions of our country was adjoined with not the winning not with playing and not with either the world cup but the performance of the players that mattered in the end. There is a mystic that follows, no matter how hard you follow the fan ship to the country, to the players, to the team we never abused them even if their performance is bad too. We somehow give sympathy to them through our posts, videos, stories etc.
Performance plays a key role in one person’s life. The hard work they do, the companionship they follow, the intriguing they become until we start to feel the same. One does not play sports but have emotions it is a desirable thing but one who also plays the sports, follow the sports, and have emotions through that, it is something a dreamy catch that we always fail to lead.
There are nth numbers of people out there and some are my friends also who believed they would become the one of the highest pitched player of all times in their respective favorite sports but when they are not selected, when they are not able to play of that level, when they thought responsibilities are bigger, when they thought they are not chosen that is exactly the time they are chosen to chose the people like them who has the best enthusiasm through the same sports, same passion they follow which they have basically what we call the X Factor.
All it takes that one moment of relief to witness this through our eyes. The one you can mentor to become like you. The one you can be the coach of so that you can see reflection of yours in them, the one in whom you got the potential to have the best kind of sports man spirit.
I heard the stories of my grandfather but have not seen him and the more I hear about him the more clarity I get about my life. I was not exactly the same like him but I was the same in thinking, in following, in enjoying, in sarcasm, in charisma in life philosophy and that is why I adore them as my true potential and true mentor.
People hear everything, people see everything, people judge everything but what they do not hear, see or judge or speak is what they actually need to do. Perhaps they miss is their identification, their profound values, their moral ethics and sometimes their loyalty to their favoritism. All it takes one moment of realization where are you heading and where are you lagging and everything will be sorted again.
It is just you and your company and your subconscious mind telling you to follow the path that you haven’t decided or confused to go actually. Your company also matters to make you do the things and perform the tasks about how brutal you want to go right on the track following by after seeing your favorite player or team or country win their dream project for the first time or after many struggles and failures.