Over a times when a person who was broken, was going with no luck in finding love their soul get wounded they usually do what every lover might do, sit back became introvert and try to love themselves again and gain what they have lost. People like these deserve more than any other thing in this world. The kind of introvert they became it forms a variation in the type of introvert. Usually who all are introvert, who do not easily open up to others, not socially active or sustain them at some point of life where they start to isolate themselves.
Well yeah, it is some form of introverts but the kind of introverts I am talking about is, who leave everything behind and says “I do not really care about what other thinks”. They start working on them secretly and not to just for some attitude or ego but to have some issues clarify on. They work on their character development, meet some random people in street, gym or even cafes and talk some about affirmations and do not care about rather they connect or not.
But this thing goes on until they believe they have seen some change in them, the type of change they expected will come after but will hit like this that will transform them to think like somebody else with whom they talk, roam around, share things and get to know that is the start of something. People like these, they not just take the other one’s mind into them but also their heart and soul also and that is where they both start to feel something for them yet still confused for telling each other their sentiments.
Some gets the opposite completely and some gets the same as them. But, for those who gets the same as them as it seems there will always be the things that weren’t the same as it looks like. There will always be such things different from each other. Unlike, their emotions, their lifestyle, their nature =, habitats etc., but if you wonder if these things are not the same then what is? Passion to live a life. Yeah, can count, but for your information this passion holds so much as one may did not even count.
For some things are easy but did not seem to be and for some things are difficult but it is not. Life lately, revolves always around what is easy and what is difficult in terms of if we see in relations as we make. But, leading a passionate life to live what does it have that one may forget to count? The positive aspects, the friendship that it holds, and how to deal with the mental issues stuff that nobody dares to see. When two people share the bond they discuss everything but when they share mental stress they share something usual suspect of requirement what they desire to seek their whole life.
And undoubtedly it should be counted if you are connecting with one. Finding someone who does not feel this awkward is rare to find. And if you are finding one it is also counting a rare thing that you may end up with them because if it is destiny it will come to you and if not, you will make the destiny. Humans can never see themselves losing their ego and for them at a time, it counts as an ego because if someone’s ego gets break down, they think there is nothing left there and similarly if they did not get their love back to their life, they think the same.
It is an interesting theory I just clicked with it by pointing things out either positively and negatively both. Over love is hazardous we all are aware of that, being childish all your life is hazardous we all are aware of this too, over caring is hazardous, over hate is hazardous, everything that is over turns out to be hazardous and if we are in the way of expressing sentiments with the person, we cannot see what is going over and what is not. And not only this but we forget to define this as well.
No matter how much a person mature is, it shows the exact immaturity behind it. Then you may recognize the other wounded person but you are in no use of helping them. That’s also the question if you will help them out, they will not fell in love with you. It usually happens when you are attracted to them but did not accept it for a long time until the other person does feel the same.
But are we or are we not in any way makes this a game of emotions that we want to play with the full risk and at some point, we enjoy it too only until it feels genuine and there is no going back. And when it feels genuine one does not want to go back instead one name it not quitting. Only because if we quit, we will be called coward that obviously will hit our ego or we do actually care about the other one’s emotions?
And we feel all about it deeply are we the right person or wrong? Right person because we think of change ourself and come back to the reality of life or wrong because we know how it all started and it will end as how you will understand. I guess there is no option for the wrong here anymore because in reality there is no wrong and everyone is right and then there is no theory comes in between.
Lately I realized when you are in love or you are wounded nothing really works for you except behaving stupid but that stupid is normal for you because you may have your past that traumatized you that made you questioned who you are but at last it is the way why you see yourself as a child, why you need to learn such things, why you need to be crave of a person who makes you feel who you are and respects the timing that will shine the love life of the people.
One is never wrong or never right, one is never mature nor immature. It is the way we evolve we see things, we get confuse, we think what to do and we make it done by our consciousness at last. If one is in depression and needs to learn everything and wants to restart their life then why is their anything wrong if one is acting childish, wants to act childish and need someone they really attracted to make them realize everything is normal.
According to me, everything what you are, or what you go through, those all are matter of facts that make you aware with your consciousness lately and if not wait for the right timing or make the right timing. Either wait or make!