People who are surrounded by the insane group of societies they learn early that why one cannot learn from the past and especially from their own past. Here is the theory, when we idolize someone and no matter if they are a celebrity, a sportsperson or an entrepreneur, etc., we mean the whole life to them and soon to start relating our life with them and slowly their life becomes ours and we forget deep down who we are or are we having our own life.
For some people it is alright because at some point they think they have connected too much that they were always like whom they adore or whom they idolize. And what they have gone through is what they are! Surprisingly, a cinema lover person sees a movie and they depict that story from their life and the actor who played the character, we start to think or wonder they would have been their whole life like this and scenarios like this make our whole life completely in terms of falsehood.
It is not wrong to idolize someone’s life, it is not wrong to follow one’s character, many people do this with gods and gurus (no offence, not a religious person so no hate) but when you cannot differentiate the characterization from the actor and follow only the things they did, that is wrong. You always have to separate the character from the actor.
We did not know what has happened to them in the past or how they are grown up or are they telling the truth in the talk shows, but one thing will always remain the truth is, the more you idolize the wrong things without making any prior difference then you are not idolizing either the character or the actor you are only following the hood of an ideology in the state of one’s not the truest form.
Yes, maturity comes when we accept our guilt and learn from other mistakes but if you cannot see mistakes in others how can you learn from them. At a time, you idolize and then you follow wrong ideology and then you cannot able to take out the mistakes from their life. Past is haunting, past is traumatizing and we see it only because past has many mistakes. If you cannot able to take out the mistakes from the people you idolize you are making a mistake itself from making them idol. And if you think you are judging this by digging deeper then, I might say you are wrong.
Passing the judgment is different and finding the mistakes are different. You hold onto a person and truly by nature you told to other one that you dislike a thing in someone you are seeing and you have a problem with that, that is passing the judgment. You lean onto a person, and find things odd in them one day and decide to talk it out you know they did wrong, that is where you know what a mistake is. And yeah, neither taunting is making you a whole concept of finding mistakes others, taunting is just we uses as a fact to pass on the judgment.
Sometimes you do a lot of mistakes while by seeing other one in life and then one person judges you for doing a mistake what you will call that situation? That you were being wrong forcefully. Sometimes you are not wrong, neither the situations yet people around you make things go wrong and turn into a mistake and highlight as a big thing that you will never forget in your whole life.
But hey, you learn a big lesson, what they judged you and how they judged you, they did a mistake and what you learnt from them is to never show what you have done wrong to anyone whom you think will never understand even if it seems to be, likewise always believe in your left eye when it tinkles. And yes, it is not a loop that you are thinking, but it is a divine ray of energy of finding things out that you always had inside but never looked so closely that you may know.
And as always, I say every coin has two sides. And you should see both the sides according to what the situation demands. Sometimes you do not look into the mistake so closely because the situation you are in, is not demanding to see. Wrong! You cannot tell that, you could not see any mistake there if you think that is right because as everyone has their own point of views on things, on situations, on life, on everything and it is not necessary that you agree on them just because you respect it.
Sometimes your divine ray of humanity does not say to accept it and that is not ego or self-respect but a calling from the soul which we even say sometimes intuition which says you already had an idea of it that it might be happening anytime soon and you let it happen because you know it was all the right things where it started. And if someone says to you that it is your mistake, just accept it because maturity lies in accepting yours and learn from others mistake.
In someone’s eyes you are wrong and in your eyes they are and one day you may might forget them but you will not forget what they did or what mistake they perform because sometimes we took it so personally we forget that is not a mistake sometimes it is a sin as well. Let me give you a situation here!
A person in who’s life everything is being wrong and one day they are drunk and they know they should stop and not drive but they know, it is the time of ending all the mistakes, life and suffering and they tried to attempt suicide. On the other hand, a person cuts his nerves down to the roots from where the hand is joined in anger as a mess inside from them turned into rage.
Both of them attempted suicide, one was known and other was just doing it. One already did a mistake and other one already had a power of doing the next thing. One already is a mess, and the other had a mess in life. Whom do you think is a wrong person here? One is a sin and other is a mistake, and whom do you think we should follow and learn from it? And who is eligible for apologetic here? Answer wisely!