What one has is that particular soft, pathetically and rebelliously emotion or a thing that other people could not justify that they don’t have, yet they have in a deep corner of their satirical issues, which they wish to fight for but they cannot. More likely, if we define it in simple words, surely one has bad days and good days, but what do they need to make it more exciting? Something that turns into a unique idea of fighting their own will that brings them to do the things they are not sure about or rather not confident about doing.
The rebellious nature of a human depends entirely on what they are thinking, and what a human is thinking depends on what they are planning to do next. Either fighting for their choices to do the things they have dreamed of and moving forward with it or becoming something their soul has been persisting for so long they just figured it out a few periods of time ago.
Someone might figure it out soon, but there are also some people who took their entire life thinking about it, figuring it out, and being confused about it. Who are they? Depressed? Stressed? Emotionally unbalanced? What do you think would be the perfect term to explain it?
For me that would be some irrational bond between pure ethics and morality that gives us a break from emotional unavailability for ourselves and starts to empty our minds, which starts the process of giving us the chance of not being the boss but the master of our choices. Who does not have risk in their lives during this period when each one of them only struggles to prove themselves to end that psyche move they took years back that gave them a label of who they are not, and they did not even want that ever?
Aren’t all of us getting that we did not want it in the first place, but it is whose choice, ours? Or somebody else’s? Or destiny’s? What is more important to a person, that label which they did not wish for or that unwanted wish? People have unlimited wishes, labels, and choices, yet only a few remain with them, and even then, they have to make those choices according to their wishes forcefully.
Just try to give an example: Suppose a person is living their life carefreely, but there are such sudden things that happen in their life which diabolically have to change their choices into destiny’s plan, and pretending that it was actually their choice to come up here is what they do all the time. But as time passes by and they realize they have taken the wrong step that time, now still they can move ahead with their choice and let those things vanish in the past; sometimes that is easy and sometimes that is not.
How it is easy because, likewise, I said we can empty our minds, rework on our thoughts, and not worry much about anything and sustain our chance to fulfill our choices, and sometimes it is mandatory also because if you do not fight for the choices you had, you will regret it for the rest of your life, making it losing an opportunity when you had it and playing “what if” situations, which is not good enough to feel anxious about it.
How it is not easy because that could be a turning point of one’s life, as what we see, what we reciprocate, and what we tell people to associate with, they just refuse not only to do these things but also to not understand, and they make it a clear decision to just find it not worth fighting for the choices but to also turn that into irreplaceable responsibilities one has to face in their life not just once but every time they go through with that one exclamation feature of choosing to go on the other side.
Why go on the other side by choosing responsibility apart from the choices? Sometimes responsibility is the only choice for some people that reduces their will to live the life; is it true? Not giving an option or a question, it is true only if one chooses to fulfill responsibility their whole life and see one day becoming them as they were but with a different perspective.
Does it make them think about their guilt? Their time? Attending to responsibility with a view they did not see, because they did not have a choice to see, and now they are thinking there are other views too. At a certain age people do think that, but with their ego and attitude and taking everything with their reflection and seeing other people doing things with other views or perspectives, they find them guilty at once. They cannot figure out why people nowadays try to think and stop for choices when it sounds so irrelevant and only responsibility is the only thing left to focus on.
Responsibilities are a must to follow, and choices are too must to acquire for not regretting stuff that we did not do or were not able to do. So, what is the bad thing here? What should we follow? Or how do we balance and give life a better chance to attain peace?
It is not a loop or a paradox that one feels or makes it a prolonged ritual to worry about. If one can make the choices of his own without any fear and not feel guilty about it or make the decisions that he knows can work, then he too can predict he can handle the responsibility.
When you are familiar with situations that are not good, that are somehow not in your favor, you feel that it is a myth and bound only by the responsibilities and do not figure out the time of making choices. They forget that responsibility is also the choices that we make in our favor and that gives us the plan to move forward. Situations that help us understand the duration of how one can let go of their bad phase are the realizations that keep you reliable with the choices that you make to perform specific tasks apart from your daily life and that also become responsibility, how at a moment we just desire to take a break from the gigantic issues that offer us the value only about the chaos and that bring us to not see the other side of life.
It is not a hard thing to correlate responsibilities and choices, but it is hard to bring what to go ahead with first. People before millennials desired to bring responsibilities first, and people after millennials bring the choices first. And millennials, they have to adapt to both responsibility and choices at the same time, which makes them see things from both sides of the coins and tell people both are necessary.A loop or paradox is not about what to choose first; it is to make people realize to see both the things, not at once, but by making the scenarios by seeing the circumstances and working with it. That could break the loop of people to understand. We cannot make people older than us or the previous generation to understand it, but we can make things better for Gen Z to make things easy for them. What will they see and how will they see things in the future, and what will they do in the present?